Love is Love - 5 Reasons Why Eloping is the Perfect Safe Space for LGBTQ+ Couple
Did you realize it's Pride Month?! As two folks who have LGBTQ+ friends and family, this topic is near and dear to Marina's and my hearts. Living in a big city like Berlin, it's easy to feel like we exist in a beautiful bubble where everyone can love and live as they please. But, unfortunately, as we peek outside our bubble, we see some not-so-great stuff - racism and homo/transphobia.
We've still got a long way to go when it comes to fighting racism and homophobia. It breaks our hearts that so many people are driven by fear and hate, when really all we need is more love in this world.
Speaking of love, have you read bell hooks' "All About Love"? It's seriously mind-blowing how much wisdom that book holds! But before drift into philosophical views, we want to focus on something even more important.
We believe that our baby, Way Up High Elopements, has a unique opportunity to create safe spaces where love can truly flourish. Let's band together and spread some magic! Together, we can make a difference.
If you're a LGBTQ+ couple considering marriage, eloping could be the perfect way to create a safe environment for your special day. With so many political and personal obstacles facing same-sex couples today, eloping can be more than just a romantic event - it can give both partners the assurance they need in order to live their love story without fear of judgement or discrimination. Let's dive into some reasons why an elopement is often the best choice for LGBTQ+ relationships when tying the knot - from breathtaking outdoor locations with picturesque views to meaningful ceremonies that nurture connections between two people in love. So grab some coffee (or wine!) and let's get started!
Overview of the current political climate and why it is important for LGBTQ+ couples to have a safe space to get married
The current political climate has highlighted the ongoing fight for human rights, particularly for the LGBTQ+ community. Especially looking towards our big neighbors the U.S but also having in mind all the other countries close to us. What the heck is going on there? Luckily some other societies progresses in its acceptance of love in all forms, it is important that couples feel safe and supported in their desire to wed. The ability to publicly celebrate your love through a wedding ceremony is a momentous occasion, and for some, an intimate elopement is the perfect way to do so. Creating a safe space for LGBTQ+ couples to wed is essential in our opinion. In Europe and beyond, the fight for equal rights within the wedding industry continues, and not only in the wedding industry!
Why elopements are the perfect solution for many same-sex couples
For many same-sex couples, finding a safe space to have their dream wedding can seem daunting. Not only because of family issues but also to find place and vendors where you can feel safe. That's why elopements have become such a popular solution. Rather than worrying about judgement from those who may not be as LGBTQ+ friendly, an elopement can provide an intimate and beautiful setting for the couple to exchange their vows. And what better place to elope than in Europe, where there are endless options for a breathtaking and unforgettable wedding day? Whether it's in a cozy cabin in the mountains or on a secluded beach, eloping in Europe offers the chance to make the day truly your own. Also, in a lot of countries, it's possible to get legally married.
We need to create safe space! Still thinking, why?
Just take a step back for a moment and feel into this! For many people, the idea of a safe space and the comfort of being held during tough times can hardly be overstated. This is especially true for those who have experienced the profound pain of watching loved ones turn away or even outright attack them for something as fundamental as their identity. The pervasive fear of having one's basic human rights challenged can be overwhelming, leaving individuals feeling isolated and vulnerable. In these moments, a safe space and the assurance of being held can be a powerful source of solace and healing. It offers the opportunity to let down one's guard, which you should feel and be able to do on your wedding day.
Tips for planning and executing a successful elopement ceremony, including venues, officiants, vendors and decorations
Planning and executing an elopement ceremony can feel overwhelming, but not to worry; we've got you covered every step of the way. Some just want to be on their own hiking some beautiful trails or say their vows at the beach, others maybe want to include their loved ones, friends, family, chosen family. We will talk everything through together with you! So start dreaming, yes that's our biggest Tip. Sit back and really think about what you feel like doing on your elopement day. Go crazy! Maybe, a hot air balloon ride, a helicopter flight, hiking a mountain, say yes on a sail boat? Nearly everything is possible. The question is, do you dare to dream?
We also take you by the hand and look for LGBTQ+ friendly vendors, let us make your elopement ceremony an unforgettable experience that you'll cherish for years to come.
See for yourself, we’re showing you a real LGBTQ+ elopement
Looking for some inspiration for your own LGBTQ+ elopement? Why not check out our most recent elopement, which took place in stunning Portugal? We planned every detail to make sure that this special event was truly reflective of the love and commitment shared between Michelle and Carley. From the breathtaking scenery to the heartfelt vows, this was a ceremony that we will all remember for years to come.
Well, this is an emotional and really important topic. In these crazy times, it's easy to feel overwhelmed and hopeless. But don't forget that we can make a difference! We have the power to hold together, raise awareness, and stand up against hate and discrimination. So break out your boldest outfits and your strongest convictions and join the fight for positive change. What can you bring to the table? Let's make a difference together!
Lots of Love
Thijsiena